Elder abuse can be hard to spot—and it often starts with someone you trust. Here are a couple of real-life inspired examples that show how easily it can happen:

When hired help becomes harmful

Maria hired a caretaker to help with everyday tasks. She trusted them and didn’t think to double-check her accounts. Over time, the caretaker quietly started writing checks to themselves and making ATM withdrawals.

Maria didn’t notice—until a family member stepped in and saw something wasn’t right.

When "family" asks for money

James got a call from someone claiming to be his nephew. The caller was friendly, convincing, and stayed in touch over time. Eventually, they asked for financial help. Wanting to do the right thing, James sent multiple Zelle payments.

Later, he found out the truth—he didn’t have a nephew.

What to look for

Simple ways to help protect loved ones

• Check in on accounts together
• Pause and verify unexpected requests
• Keep conversations about money open and judgement-free
• Trust your gut—something feeling off is worth a second look